I've felt free emotionally (for the most part) for quite some time, even to the point that i was looking up dating sites. However recently something has made me realize that even though emotionally i'm ready to move on, the legal ties of being married are undeniably a hinderance to any serious relationship with any woman.
The laws are different in other states, however from what i've seen it requires me to be a resident for at least a few months before even filing for divorce if i leave florida. Also it appears that getting a divorce from Canada would still require me to return to the states.
So, today i've emailed 2 lawyers and i'm awaiting on their response regarding my situation. I asked the aproximate time it would take to get a divorce and what it would cost considering it probably would be contested by my wife.
I got to wait out the winter going on in canada anyways. I'm working enough that i believe i could afford to pay for the divorce myself as long as i remain in my tent and not rent a room for whatever long it would take. I would have to move my tent to higher ground in a few months when the weather changes and adapt to it of course as i have to everything else.
This is an unexpected expense, but the result would be me being 100% free from Nina in every possible way. Emotionally she has been using my niece and nephew to try and get me back, and i've managed to remain strong and not fall for it.
For 20 years i've either been with women for fun, or picked the wrong one to have serious relationships. I'm 38, i want to experience fatherhood, a good woman i can love and respect, to grow old with. My bad marriage needs to end if i'm ever to have a chance at a good one.
Wish me luck guys, i think i'm going to need it if Nina gets a good lawyer to drag the process down.
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